6 MAJOR LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THE FAILED MARRIAGE OF EHI OGBEBOR AND KEN BRAMOR

I hate failed marriages , I detest them. However with age and maturity, I'm aware no one really does enter a marriage hoping it would fail so I feel sorry for the couples regardless of mistakes made.
Solo2hooked is a matchmaking platform agreed, but it's my duty as a hookeeologist to also pass vital information to singles so we all LEARN. Experience is the best teacher no doubt , but you can learn from the mistakes of others.
Ehi the very beautiful lady in these pictures is the CEO Sayaveth Interiors and Hotel, a pure beauty with finesse, class, elegance and brains. She is a divorced mother of three kids , two from a divorce which many accuse her of having with a married man she snatched( I'm sounding like a gossip lool). The third child a girl she had with Ken her now enstranged husband of 7 months who is a serial husband having 10 children from 6 different women, currently engaged to another lady, an alleged occultic man as stated by Ehi and mega rich. This story is messy as Ehi took to social media to expose and cast Ken (Please google). Their wedding 8 months ago shut down social media space as it was lavish to the core, they gave out car gifts as souvenirs and had the creme de la creme as wedding guests.

THE TOP 6 LESSONS ARE
There are so many lessons , but these are my top 6

1. ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD
I can imagine how many people who would have envied Ehi on her wedding day. Pure case of a super rich and beautiful lady getting married to a billionnare. A divorced single mum finding love again. In the eyes of many, she had it ALL. However we now know it's not totally the case as she took to blogs to reveal that indeed IT WASN'T ALL ROSE PETALS AND GOLD.

LOVE SPELL - THE BOLA AND KEMI STORY

A lot of people who try casting love or attraction spells are doing it with the hidden intention to possess the other person, which is never a good thing. The spell won’t work because there’s nothing on this earth that can break free will, and even if it does, the relationship would be unhealthy and out of balance.

SHE SAYS 6000 DOLLARS WON'T BE ENOUGH FOR HER MONTHLY

Before you get your tongues wagging, Chuks permitted I use this for my post. The kind of stories I hear as a matchmaker is gobsmaking.

Asides the screenshot which actually reveals that Chuks is mega successful, over 40 and still single, it's evident that he has had some ugly experience with women. The reality is as a single and successful guy over 40,  it's harder  finding the right woman.

He must have been so overwhelmed when he took to facebook and lamented saying '' When I think of all I did for my ex, the car I bought, the money I gave her, the house I bought, I begin to wonder why I was so dumb''. He has since deleted the post.

IF AN EX QUICKLY MOVED ON LESS THAN A YEAR- CHRIS ATTOH REMARRIES

Actress Damilola Adegbite and her Tinsel star husband Chris Attoh split in 2017. He has quickly moved on and is reported to have remarried in less than a year to a lady named Betty. Damilola in a recent interview said ''

IF THE RELATIONSHIP FILLS YOUR HEART WITH DOUBT, BE SINGLE

We will be addressing a major topic which is reasons why being single is better than being with someone who leaves your heart in doubt.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and you didn't actually know your stand?  The person oozes bae vibes , but somehow you don't actually know if you are dating or not. 

MARRY THAT PERSON WHO IS FUNCTIONAL , RESPONSIBLE AND TREATS YOU RIGHT

Former minister of Aviation Femi Fani Kayode has been divorced twice  and had kids with his previous wives. Many online termed him not good enough to maintain a stable marriage till Precious Chikwendu a former beauty queen stepped on the scene. 

CHAIRMAN FIRST BANK NIGERIA IBUKUN AWOSIKA ADVICES SINGLES

Mrs Ibukun Awosika is the Chairman  of First Bank Nigeria. She is also a business magnate, author and motivational speaker. Speaking to graduands at the 13th annual convocation ceremony of Convenant University, she gave sound advice on the subject of marriage. 

Read below, learn and be inspired

HANDLING REJECTION

Rejection dictionary meaning

The dismissing or refusing of a proposal, idea, etc . The action of spurning a person's affections.

I was inspired to write an article about rejection when I tried hooking a young man up to a friend of mine and she rejected him. She was able to decipher that the relationship would not transcend into marriage and decided to not start in the first place. He reached out to me and said he felt hurt and pained that she did not accept him. He has however withdrawn into his shell and refused to try again.

DEAR SINGLE AND EXPECTANT- ENGAGE PRAYER WARFARE

PRAYER MEANING- A solemn request for help or expression of thanks addressed to God or another deity.
While discussing with a female hookee recently, and mentioned I had just returned from prayers , her comment though honest touched me.
She said '' I just wish I had the ability to take prayers seriously and pray regularly''.
I decided I was going to dedicate a post on the blog about prayers and it's importance.
As a single lady or man being expectant for a life partner or anything in life, you must learn and make out time to pray for yourself.

CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL PAGES 26-47

  

This is a continuation of of our book series by Debi Pearl.
These pages summarize key qualities of a helpmeet.

Debi stresses that women ought to 

WE NEED HELP!- MY FATHER IS THE REASON WHY MY SISTERS AND I ARE SINGLE

Please, I got this message via the solo2hooked inbox, this is real and the lady is distressed. The lady and her sisters have not been able to have meaningful relationships due to a diabolical  jinx by their  father.

They need help, what do they do? We need suggestions.

CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL PAGES 1-25 SUMMARY

GOD’S WILL FOR YOU DESIROUS OF A LIFE PARTNER

I have met a couple of ladies who have advanced greatly in age, and have already given up on settling down. They often say ‘’ maybe it is not God’s will for me’’.

I almost began imagining same till I read Debi Pearl’s book

IT IS GODS WILL THAT YOU GET MARRIED IF YOU DESIRE TOO

DO NOT ACCEPT YOUR WEAKNESSES WORK ON THEM- COUPLE SPLITS

In over a year of running Solo2hooked I have been faced with various challenges. You would agree that bringing two people from different backgrounds to start up relationships that can end in marriage is not child’s play. I have however been dogged and focused on my goals regardless.

HOOKD2STAY PART 3- MY MARRIAGE CRASHED MONTHS AFTER MY TRADITIONAL WEDDING – MY STORY, MY PAIN, LESSONS LEARNED

While going about my usual Solo2hooked business, a hookheart reached out to me and commended my efforts on Solo2hooked. I was elated, since I knew she would not need my services as I saw her traditional wedding pictures in the past year. I was happy for her and felt she got a great catch (hubby was good looking). The next couple of hours into our discussion left me jaw dropped. She told me  that the marriage had packed up. How? Shocked and perplexed I asked. In less than a year after traditional marriage, they  split and bride price had been  returned . I thought it was only celebrities who experienced this mostly.

She opened up to me as to what led to the marriage packing up and I felt nothing but pity for her and pray God gives her the grace to pass through this hard phase.

HER STORY

Her hubby always complained of lack of funds. After the traditional wedding, he couldn't even afford to get them  a house to live in as he was the only son and lived with his sisters before marriage.

AM I GOING TO HAVE DUMB CHILDREN?

I am going to be 33 this year, and I came from a family of achievers. My dad retired from Chevron and had a PhD with many publications . My mum too is a professor and super intelligent.

IS LOVE REALLY ENOUGH FOR A MARRIAGE TO HAPPEN AND LAST

FROM SOLO2HOOKED AKA THE TRIPPLE H (MINI DRAMA)




HOOKER/HOOKEEOLOGIST: Welcome to Solo2hooked

MY FIANCEE IS NOT HAPPY WITH MY JOB AND IT IS A BIG PROBLEM

A young handsome man reached out to me appreciating my efforts on Solo2hooked. He slowly opened up about his issues with his fiancee who dosen't like his job. He actually works offshore and spends a month there regularly as he is currently on a shell contract, then 2 weeks onshore and works from the company's office.

HOOKD2STAY PART 2- MY STORY OF PAIN , HURT, ABUSE , MALTREATMENT IN THE HANDS OF THE ONE I LOVED

In this second part of Hookd2Stay, a hookheart who was once married before shares her deepest hurt, pain, sadness, betrayal etc by her ex husband as a foreign student abroad.
This is a true story( real life) but names will be changed for privacy and security purposes. Lady will be called Tola, while ex husband will be called Segun.

QUESTION OF THE DAY - SHOULD DISTANCE BE A BARRIER TO A RELATIONSHIP WITHIN A COUNTRY

Question of the day



Should distance be a barrier to a relationship for people who feel a strong connection towards each other?

HOOKD2STAY PART1- HOW I MET THE HUSBAND OF MY DREAMS DESPITE AGE AND MANY OBSTACLES

While in prayer mode, a female hookheart (Lets call her Nancy for security purpose and to avoid the story being traced to individual ) reached out to me on facebook. After exchanging pleasantries , she revealed that she had married the guy of her heart’s desire.

Gobsmacked , I asked how she did it as she always gushed about really liking him with all her heart when we chatted in the past and mentioned he wasn't really responsive.

The next couple of hours where expository, highly informative and best of all is that her strategies worked.