Question of the day
Should distance be a barrier to a relationship for people who feel a strong connection towards each other?
Years ago, a married male friend of mine hooked me up (hookeeology did not start today oo) to his friend . After months of regular calls and chats , I was convinced this guy was husband material 9,000 yards. I started daydreaming , how I'd be a good wife, cater to him and he likewise , how good our .......(fill in the blank space) would be spiced with elements from fifty shades of Grey , I began gushing to friends and family that he may be the one then gbam he says " I really feel a connection, I really like you but distance is the issue ".
But we are 7 hours or less apart, same country, you don't live in Sambisa forest, I thought love conquered all were thoughts going through my head . Well I let go and undreamed the daydreams .Just negodu, tommorow " they" will say I'm choosy oblivious to the fact a potential mcdreamy cited distance as a barrier.
Should distance especially within a country be a barrier ?
Should distance be a barrier to a relationship for people who feel a strong connection towards each other?
Years ago, a married male friend of mine hooked me up (hookeeology did not start today oo) to his friend . After months of regular calls and chats , I was convinced this guy was husband material 9,000 yards. I started daydreaming , how I'd be a good wife, cater to him and he likewise , how good our .......(fill in the blank space) would be spiced with elements from fifty shades of Grey , I began gushing to friends and family that he may be the one then gbam he says " I really feel a connection, I really like you but distance is the issue ".
But we are 7 hours or less apart, same country, you don't live in Sambisa forest, I thought love conquered all were thoughts going through my head . Well I let go and undreamed the daydreams .Just negodu, tommorow " they" will say I'm choosy oblivious to the fact a potential mcdreamy cited distance as a barrier.
Should distance especially within a country be a barrier ?
It depends on the people involved. Some people can handle it and others can't.
ReplyDeleteLots of great unions have been formed in spite of distance. On the other hand, distance has broken a lot of unions.
Dealing wt the same issue
ReplyDeleteDepends on the people involved. People have been able to sustain relationships across countries and even continents. It takes commitment and determination from both parties. Where is party is unwilling or unable to take the step then there is no need
ReplyDeleteIt sure depends on the people involved. I was in one that didn't work out and just gave up on anything distance but along came another distant relationship that lead to marriage.
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ReplyDeleteWia dis dude dey biko
ReplyDeleteDistance should not be a barrier or an excuse to miss an authentic opportunity if one is truly convinced that it is real.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you my brother. What is to be will be distance or close by. It all depends on those involved. If you have the good and authentic opportunity., please make it work.
ReplyDeleteSame to you. I agree with you. When trust in God and not others opinion, He will direct our path be it far or near.
DeleteWhat if God directs both to the Atlantic Ocean?
DeleteThe abundance of the earth is in the sea. He will still perform wonders. God can direct but you cannot.
DeleteIf God directs both to the Atlantic Ocean both will drown and ....end of story
DeleteHookie can direct ��
DeleteYes its a barrier when you are hooked to the partner by a hooker....but for friends turn partners, it's never a barrier.
ReplyDeleteNwankwo people can be introduced and become superb friends and life partners. Hooker hooking does not pose a barrier. I am sure you have seen 2 success stories on solo2hooked. Meeting friends and people can be done in diverse ways of which hooking /hookeeology is one.
ReplyDeleteit shouldn't be a barrier at all, not like they are inn different time zones. They should create time to visit each other. It's hard I knw, but when the two pple set there mind to it, it's achieveable
ReplyDeleteNo i dont think so.
ReplyDeleteIf he has money, he should be able to take you along (Relocate!). If not, no need to love someone who would be laying with someone else. IN THE BEGINNING DISTANCE SHOULD NOT. AFTER A LITTLE WHILE, TWO PPLE IN LOVE SHOULD BE TOGETHER...not just for sexual reasons but for many other reasons........
ReplyDeleteLol@ potential Mcdreamy
ReplyDeleteDistance is a serious barrier o u would have relocated to his side to make it work
ReplyDelete#nah
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