DEAR SINGLE LET NOBODY MARRIAGE SHAME YOU!

 

Ok so you are single, above 30 and female moreso in Nigeria /Africa. The popular phrase ‘Go and marry’ will not be new to you. I have been marriage shamed countless times that I have become immune looool. Well, I’m different sorta as I am wired differently. Things that move most women do not move me asuch like seeking validation from a person or spouse to feel whole, complete or seeking approval from another human.

Women face pressure from themselves, their mothers, their sisters, relatives and their friends when it comes to getting married. Even some very close married friends tend to cut you off when they have a ring and are married. Patriarchy has managed to fool women into thinking they need men or marriage even in the so called good marriages to feel complete, whole, validated and approved of.

I laughed so hard when OAP Toke Makinwa took to social media to lament saying she thought it was rude that she was being asked when she was going to get married, that she would not be beautiful forever😅.

THE FABULOUS TRADITIONAL WEDDING OF TOCHI BISCAN AND UDOCHI OHAERI

The traditional wedding of Tochi and Udochi held on the  20th of April 2019. I have always known Tochi the groom from Childhood. He is very intelligent, an  articulate Engineer, God fearing, cool , calm and calculated, a guy indeed with a good heart. The bride is so smart, an intelligent bespoke Pharmacist and from an amazing pedigree. I wish them a happy married life. Stay tuned for White wedding pictures.

MANY WOMEN WHO REGRET THEIR MARRIAGES IN NIGERIA- THE IMPORTANCE OF WISE PARTNER SELECTION

I was  one of the people who was shocked that Dabota married a billionaire so much older than her , and sort of  envied her too. I remember my aunt saying ''all that glitters is not Gold, you do not know what she goes through behind the scenes?''. In my eyes, my aunt was just being pessimistic , negative and a hater.

SHE SAYS 6000 DOLLARS WON'T BE ENOUGH FOR HER MONTHLY

Before you get your tongues wagging, Chuks permitted I use this for my post. The kind of stories I hear as a matchmaker is gobsmaking.

Asides the screenshot which actually reveals that Chuks is mega successful, over 40 and still single, it's evident that he has had some ugly experience with women. The reality is as a single and successful guy over 40,  it's harder  finding the right woman.

He must have been so overwhelmed when he took to facebook and lamented saying '' When I think of all I did for my ex, the car I bought, the money I gave her, the house I bought, I begin to wonder why I was so dumb''. He has since deleted the post.

IF THE RELATIONSHIP FILLS YOUR HEART WITH DOUBT, BE SINGLE

We will be addressing a major topic which is reasons why being single is better than being with someone who leaves your heart in doubt.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and you didn't actually know your stand?  The person oozes bae vibes , but somehow you don't actually know if you are dating or not. 

MARRY THAT PERSON WHO IS FUNCTIONAL , RESPONSIBLE AND TREATS YOU RIGHT

Former minister of Aviation Femi Fani Kayode has been divorced twice  and had kids with his previous wives. Many online termed him not good enough to maintain a stable marriage till Precious Chikwendu a former beauty queen stepped on the scene. 

CHAIRMAN FIRST BANK NIGERIA IBUKUN AWOSIKA ADVICES SINGLES

Mrs Ibukun Awosika is the Chairman  of First Bank Nigeria. She is also a business magnate, author and motivational speaker. Speaking to graduands at the 13th annual convocation ceremony of Convenant University, she gave sound advice on the subject of marriage. 

Read below, learn and be inspired

CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET BY DEBI PEARL PAGES 26-47

  

This is a continuation of of our book series by Debi Pearl.
These pages summarize key qualities of a helpmeet.

Debi stresses that women ought to