DO NOT ACCEPT YOUR WEAKNESSES WORK ON THEM- COUPLE SPLITS

In over a year of running Solo2hooked I have been faced with various challenges. You would agree that bringing two people from different backgrounds to start up relationships that can end in marriage is not child’s play. I have however been dogged and focused on my goals regardless.

One common area where I have had challenges is in clients telling me the other party accepts his/her weaknesses as part of life and refuses to do anything about them.

I will give an instance of a real life scenario- Funke and Yomi (Not real names for privacy purposes) met through me via Solo2hooked and they liked each other instantly. I was amazed at how fast their relationship moved and could only hope and pray they aren’t clouded in the honeymoon phase while taking the walking down the aisle decision.

Yomi always gushed about Funke and how he sees spending the rest of his life with her. I was elated hopeful with tentacles up for the good news when it finally happened. Fast-forward months later, Yomi sang a different tune. He told me Funke had broken up with him and bitterly revealed reasons why. I asked Funke what actually happened and she revealed YOMI had warned her initially, that he had anger issues prior to their dating. She dismissed it thinking it was a trivial issue, but during the course of the relationship, YOMI displayed bouts of extreme anger and she felt she could not cope. In the end,  they both ended up hurt though the break up was for the best.

THE CRUX

We all have weaknesses as humans, but we shouldn’t accept weaknesses detrimental to others as part of our lives. We need to try our best to work on weaknesses and turn them to strengths if not totally, at least partially. You may not do it by your will power alone, but the grace of God is always sufficient.