DEAR SINGLE LET NOBODY MARRIAGE SHAME YOU!

 

Ok so you are single, above 30 and female moreso in Nigeria /Africa. The popular phrase ‘Go and marry’ will not be new to you. I have been marriage shamed countless times that I have become immune looool. Well, I’m different sorta as I am wired differently. Things that move most women do not move me asuch like seeking validation from a person or spouse to feel whole, complete or seeking approval from another human.

Women face pressure from themselves, their mothers, their sisters, relatives and their friends when it comes to getting married. Even some very close married friends tend to cut you off when they have a ring and are married. Patriarchy has managed to fool women into thinking they need men or marriage even in the so called good marriages to feel complete, whole, validated and approved of.

I laughed so hard when OAP Toke Makinwa took to social media to lament saying she thought it was rude that she was being asked when she was going to get married, that she would not be beautiful forever😅.

LOVE SPELL - THE BOLA AND KEMI STORY

A lot of people who try casting love or attraction spells are doing it with the hidden intention to possess the other person, which is never a good thing. The spell won’t work because there’s nothing on this earth that can break free will, and even if it does, the relationship would be unhealthy and out of balance.

TESTIMONALS- SISTER INLAW GUSHES ABOUT HER INLAW

This is how it should be , openly testify so that others will know it works and it ain't scam. Each day Chioma sees me, she can't help but gush about how wonderful her brother in-law is.

SHE SAYS 6000 DOLLARS WON'T BE ENOUGH FOR HER MONTHLY

Before you get your tongues wagging, Chuks permitted I use this for my post. The kind of stories I hear as a matchmaker is gobsmaking.

Asides the screenshot which actually reveals that Chuks is mega successful, over 40 and still single, it's evident that he has had some ugly experience with women. The reality is as a single and successful guy over 40,  it's harder  finding the right woman.

He must have been so overwhelmed when he took to facebook and lamented saying '' When I think of all I did for my ex, the car I bought, the money I gave her, the house I bought, I begin to wonder why I was so dumb''. He has since deleted the post.

IF THE RELATIONSHIP FILLS YOUR HEART WITH DOUBT, BE SINGLE

We will be addressing a major topic which is reasons why being single is better than being with someone who leaves your heart in doubt.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and you didn't actually know your stand?  The person oozes bae vibes , but somehow you don't actually know if you are dating or not. 

MARRY THAT PERSON WHO IS FUNCTIONAL , RESPONSIBLE AND TREATS YOU RIGHT

Former minister of Aviation Femi Fani Kayode has been divorced twice  and had kids with his previous wives. Many online termed him not good enough to maintain a stable marriage till Precious Chikwendu a former beauty queen stepped on the scene. 

CHAIRMAN FIRST BANK NIGERIA IBUKUN AWOSIKA ADVICES SINGLES

Mrs Ibukun Awosika is the Chairman  of First Bank Nigeria. She is also a business magnate, author and motivational speaker. Speaking to graduands at the 13th annual convocation ceremony of Convenant University, she gave sound advice on the subject of marriage. 

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