Before you get your tongues wagging, Chuks permitted I use this for my post. The kind of stories I hear as a matchmaker is gobsmaking.
Asides the screenshot which actually reveals that Chuks is mega successful, over 40 and still single, it's evident that he has had some ugly experience with women. The reality is as a single and successful guy over 40, it's harder finding the right woman.
He must have been so overwhelmed when he took to facebook and lamented saying '' When I think of all I did for my ex, the car I bought, the money I gave her, the house I bought, I begin to wonder why I was so dumb''. He has since deleted the post.
I can be blunt without mincing words so I told him he had this experience because he focussed on container , not content.
When a man is attracted and focusses on just physical beauty and not content, moreso if he is super successful, this is likely going to be his experience. Women are drawn naturally to successful men and anywhere it flows with mlk and honey. Naija is hard enough and there are leeches everywhere. Falling for a particular spec of women which are light skinned and beautiful, most just stay with him not for love, but for his money and then he keeps going round and round in circles. At almost 45, he travels abroad and falls for a model and pageant queen who says 6000 dollars in a month won't be enough for her (Imagine, rolls eyes). He thinks of using solo2hooked's services, but I can totally tell he hasn't moved past the trophy babe status and quality syndrome.
Container is cool, but what is the content of that individual ?
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