I hate failed marriages , I detest them. However with age and maturity, I'm aware no one really does enter a marriage hoping it would fail so I feel sorry for the couples regardless of mistakes made.
Solo2hooked is a matchmaking platform agreed, but it's my duty as a hookeeologist to also pass vital information to singles so we all LEARN. Experience is the best teacher no doubt , but you can learn from the mistakes of others.
Ehi the very beautiful lady in these pictures is the CEO Sayaveth Interiors and Hotel, a pure beauty with finesse, class, elegance and brains. She is a divorced mother of three kids , two from a divorce which many accuse her of having with a married man she snatched( I'm sounding like a gossip lool). The third child a girl she had with Ken her now enstranged husband of 7 months who is a serial husband having 10 children from 6 different women, currently engaged to another lady, an alleged occultic man as stated by Ehi and mega rich. This story is messy as Ehi took to social media to expose and cast Ken (Please google). Their wedding 8 months ago shut down social media space as it was lavish to the core, they gave out car gifts as souvenirs and had the creme de la creme as wedding guests.
There are so many lessons , but these are my top 6
1. ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD
I can imagine how many people who would have envied Ehi on her wedding day. Pure case of a super rich and beautiful lady getting married to a billionnare. A divorced single mum finding love again. In the eyes of many, she had it ALL. However we now know it's not totally the case as she took to blogs to reveal that indeed IT WASN'T ALL ROSE PETALS AND GOLD.
2. DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SEE ON SOCIAL MEDIA, ALOT HAPPENS BEHIND THE SCENES
Some individuals get depressed seeing people living the life on socal media and they get sad and depressed from self pity seeing others living the life they have always dreamed of. Ehi took to social media posting luxury items, praising Ken and giving everyone the impression that all was well and perfect in her ''kingdom'' only for the bubble to burst and truths about how her husband had been a terrible partner surficed to the point of abandoning her and her daughter when she needed him the most.
3. ENVY NO ONE
Who didn't hear of Ehi and Ken's wedding? The super talk of the town wedding that shut down Benin and shook the Naija internet space. Cars where even given as souvenirs oooo(google) , dollars sprayed , cake a gigantic one hmm. I can only imagine how many people envied her only for her to reveal how her enstranged bllionare hubby belonged to the occult, used his mum for rituals and wanted to use her daughter till prayers saved her (Oh chim, crazy spooky stuff).
4. IF HE /SHE HAS MULTIPLE BABY MAMA'S AND PAPA'S, MOST TIMES THE CYCLE CONTINUES
Yes divorce , separation etc happens and no one really plans for them. It's ok to remarry, try again and never give up. However, when there are multiple women , men and kids involved, it's often bad news. With reference to Future and Ciara, Caroline Danjuma and hubby, Tonto Dike and Hubby, Ooni of ife, Maje Ayida and Toke etc. If he has multiple baby mama's MY SISTER RUN! Your case might not be different ooo as the cycle most often continues.
5. PRIVATE MARITAL ISSUES SHOULD BE KEPT OFF SOCIAL MEDIA
Not everyone wishes you well, and the world isn't happy go lucky, plus people have personal problems of their own and the internet never forgets. Ehi reveals too much personal family stuff on social media. While many termed her a woman scorned and out to destroy her enstranged husband's image by using a socal media tell all like Toke did with her book, I HAVE LEARNT NOT to vent my entire frustrations on social media. Most do not give a hoot and will have a field day laughing you to scorn behind your back. Plus the internet never forgets and your little kids get to read these things when they grow.
6. SEEK THE FACE OF GOD IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS
I currently have a male friend who is under diabolical attack out of dating a ''witch'' who cast a lovespell and evil vengance spell on him, confirmed by a pastor (No jokes , real life). Men and women ought to be careful and prayerful these days. Diabolical items repackaged in various names have gone digital in the form of Kayanmata, control oil and the likes. Ehi accuses her husband Ken of never being able to sleep at night and always being restless. If this was indeed true, she should have known something was amiss and he was more than what met the eye as she accuses him of belonging to the occult and having a pact with them to recycle women.
Singles pray ooo, married pray ooo. Do not be moved by wealth and looks solely, get on your damn knees and pray!!! .
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