Male Hookee based in Lagos. Female Hookee based in Abia. The two had interacted scantily in the past until recently, the female hookee received a notification and the conversation ensued below
Male Hookee: Hello babe, how are you doing ?
Female Hookee: I'm fine and you?
Male Hookee: I'll be coming towards the East for a burial precisely Enugu
Female Hookee : Really (Excitement on her face), when? It means we have the opportunity to see then, like you have always wanted
Male Hookee: Yea, so I thought. Oya come to Enugu now
Female Hookee: But you are the one who requested we see , you come to Abia
Male Hookee: I cannot come to Abia , come to Enugu after all , I will be taking care of whatever bills we spend
Female Hookee: Ok then, you pay for my transport cannot use my money to look for any guy ooo
Male Hookee: What is the distance from Abia to Enugu? It won't cost you much haba . I cannot send you cash when we have not seen
Female Hookee : Really, Ok then you come. Why do men even feel the woman should be the one travelling up and down, why can't you yourself travel?
Male Hookee: I can't just come to Abia now haba
He didn't give any concrete reason
QUESTIONS
1. Who should visit who first?
2. Which hookee is going about it wrongly?
3. If they were to reach a compromise, what should they both do?
From the chat,he travelled all the way to the east (Enugu)wot den stops him from getting to Abia to see her,if hez eager to see he would have to gone to Abia to see her thereby using a stone to kill two birds...
ReplyDeleteWell I think d key word here is "Compromise".
ReplyDeleteD lady has agreed to step outta her comfort zone and go see d guy in Enugu, d guy shld also step out by paying d transport fare since it ain't even much and he's already accepted footing d bill shld d lady come to Enugu.
Datz ma humble opinion