DEAR SINGLE LET NOBODY MARRIAGE SHAME YOU!

 

Ok so you are single, above 30 and female moreso in Nigeria /Africa. The popular phrase ‘Go and marry’ will not be new to you. I have been marriage shamed countless times that I have become immune looool. Well, I’m different sorta as I am wired differently. Things that move most women do not move me asuch like seeking validation from a person or spouse to feel whole, complete or seeking approval from another human.

Women face pressure from themselves, their mothers, their sisters, relatives and their friends when it comes to getting married. Even some very close married friends tend to cut you off when they have a ring and are married. Patriarchy has managed to fool women into thinking they need men or marriage even in the so called good marriages to feel complete, whole, validated and approved of.

I laughed so hard when OAP Toke Makinwa took to social media to lament saying she thought it was rude that she was being asked when she was going to get married, that she would not be beautiful forever😅.

THE WHITE WEDDING PICTURES OF BISCAN TOCHI AKUJOBI AND UDOCHI OHAERI

The White wedding held in August 2019. This was inarguably the classiest wedding in 2019. Bride and groom looked very resplendent in their ensembles. Their cake was so avant garde , it left many guests in awe. Everything about their wedding screamed all shades of sophistication and absolute class.

BRIDAL SHOWER AND PRE WEDDING PHOTOS OF BISCAN TOCHI AKUJOBI AND UDOCHI OHAERI

THE FABULOUS TRADITIONAL WEDDING OF TOCHI BISCAN AND UDOCHI OHAERI

The traditional wedding of Tochi and Udochi held on the  20th of April 2019. I have always known Tochi the groom from Childhood. He is very intelligent, an  articulate Engineer, God fearing, cool , calm and calculated, a guy indeed with a good heart. The bride is so smart, an intelligent bespoke Pharmacist and from an amazing pedigree. I wish them a happy married life. Stay tuned for White wedding pictures.

6 MAJOR LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THE FAILED MARRIAGE OF EHI OGBEBOR AND KEN BRAMOR

I hate failed marriages , I detest them. However with age and maturity, I'm aware no one really does enter a marriage hoping it would fail so I feel sorry for the couples regardless of mistakes made.
Solo2hooked is a matchmaking platform agreed, but it's my duty as a hookeeologist to also pass vital information to singles so we all LEARN. Experience is the best teacher no doubt , but you can learn from the mistakes of others.
Ehi the very beautiful lady in these pictures is the CEO Sayaveth Interiors and Hotel, a pure beauty with finesse, class, elegance and brains. She is a divorced mother of three kids , two from a divorce which many accuse her of having with a married man she snatched( I'm sounding like a gossip lool). The third child a girl she had with Ken her now enstranged husband of 7 months who is a serial husband having 10 children from 6 different women, currently engaged to another lady, an alleged occultic man as stated by Ehi and mega rich. This story is messy as Ehi took to social media to expose and cast Ken (Please google). Their wedding 8 months ago shut down social media space as it was lavish to the core, they gave out car gifts as souvenirs and had the creme de la creme as wedding guests.

THE TOP 6 LESSONS ARE
There are so many lessons , but these are my top 6

1. ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD
I can imagine how many people who would have envied Ehi on her wedding day. Pure case of a super rich and beautiful lady getting married to a billionnare. A divorced single mum finding love again. In the eyes of many, she had it ALL. However we now know it's not totally the case as she took to blogs to reveal that indeed IT WASN'T ALL ROSE PETALS AND GOLD.

MANY WOMEN WHO REGRET THEIR MARRIAGES IN NIGERIA- THE IMPORTANCE OF WISE PARTNER SELECTION

I was  one of the people who was shocked that Dabota married a billionaire so much older than her , and sort of  envied her too. I remember my aunt saying ''all that glitters is not Gold, you do not know what she goes through behind the scenes?''. In my eyes, my aunt was just being pessimistic , negative and a hater.

LOVE SPELL - THE BOLA AND KEMI STORY

A lot of people who try casting love or attraction spells are doing it with the hidden intention to possess the other person, which is never a good thing. The spell won’t work because there’s nothing on this earth that can break free will, and even if it does, the relationship would be unhealthy and out of balance.

TESTIMONALS- SISTER INLAW GUSHES ABOUT HER INLAW

This is how it should be , openly testify so that others will know it works and it ain't scam. Each day Chioma sees me, she can't help but gush about how wonderful her brother in-law is.

SHE SAYS 6000 DOLLARS WON'T BE ENOUGH FOR HER MONTHLY

Before you get your tongues wagging, Chuks permitted I use this for my post. The kind of stories I hear as a matchmaker is gobsmaking.

Asides the screenshot which actually reveals that Chuks is mega successful, over 40 and still single, it's evident that he has had some ugly experience with women. The reality is as a single and successful guy over 40,  it's harder  finding the right woman.

He must have been so overwhelmed when he took to facebook and lamented saying '' When I think of all I did for my ex, the car I bought, the money I gave her, the house I bought, I begin to wonder why I was so dumb''. He has since deleted the post.

IF AN EX QUICKLY MOVED ON LESS THAN A YEAR- CHRIS ATTOH REMARRIES

Actress Damilola Adegbite and her Tinsel star husband Chris Attoh split in 2017. He has quickly moved on and is reported to have remarried in less than a year to a lady named Betty. Damilola in a recent interview said ''