While discussing with a female hookee she said" I would probably have had more guys ask me out if I was taller, more beautiful etc etc" .
Hmmm, I could tell her self esteem was messed up, since she felt her being short and other aspects of her physical appearance where major limitations. I told her, but I am tall now, am I married? I pointed out the fact that even the most drop dead gorgeous babes end up marrying JUST ONE husband. The same ONE husband an "ugly girl" will marry, unless you get divorced and remarry or decide to sleep around. #Vanity. Even the mammy water looking lady just gets ONE husband to "shine her congo for life". Beauty will not make her get three at a time especially in Nigeria.
The next time you feel someone's physical attributes are better than yours remember that in the end, the tall, short, bowlegged, dark skinned, light skinned, dumb, intelligent etc end up with ONE HUSBAND who is highly imperfect.
Shine her congo kwa, oh chim oooo
ReplyDeleteBut well hung men marry more than one, right? :-)
ReplyDeleteBut well hung men marry more than one, right? :-)
ReplyDeleteStanley Bob-Carl Ozoemena I've asked guys who have more than one wife, chronic daters etc my dear they concur that Congo is Congo, could be differentiated by small trips to Senegal and Côte voire , but it is still vanity.
ReplyDeleteCongo. This word you use is starting to make my nature rise, Chidinma. What's that your phone number again, please? :-)
ReplyDeletetanly Bob-Carl Ozoemena, don't mistake knowledge for "spoil finish" :)
ReplyDeleteNaze Chidinma everything is a function of maturity. It takes maturity to know that one is uniquely made. And to stop being intimidated when you come across a "good" quality that one does not have.