Ok so you are single, above
30 and female moreso in Nigeria /Africa. The popular phrase ‘Go and marry’ will
not be new to you. I have been marriage shamed countless times that I have
become immune looool. Well, I’m different sorta as I am wired differently.
Things that move most women do not move me asuch like seeking validation from a
person or spouse to feel whole, complete or seeking approval from another human.
Women face pressure from themselves, their mothers, their sisters, relatives
and their friends when it comes to getting married. Even some very close
married friends tend to cut you off when they have a ring and are married. Patriarchy
has managed to fool women into thinking they need men or marriage even in the
so called good marriages to feel complete, whole, validated and approved
of.
