A hookheart thought to share this story of hers as a lesson and a way of encouraging others.
It is her personal experience and she has chosen to remain anonymous. Names have been changed for privacy.
THE STORY OF EBERE AND NNAMDI
Ebere is beautiful , tall, curvy, bubbly and has a heart of gold. She possesses most qualities most men would really want and need in a woman. For some unknown reason, Ebere has been unable to nab herself the guy of her dreams and that began to worry her.
Listening to sermons by renowned men of God , Ebere began applying some of the principles such as thanking God in advance, reducing her complaints and negativity, living everyday highly expectant.
She had tried dating some men, but all she got were players and unserious men only attracted to her curves and money.
One faithful day, while Ebere took a stroll , a young man every inch what she had envisioned as a partner approached her and asked for her number. She spent no time hesitating and soon they became so close and great friends.
Overtime, Ebere and Nnamdi couldn't keep their hands off each other. They got really intimate .
Nnamdi on the other hand had a terrible habit of chain smoking, and Ebere tried really hard to make him quit in love. She always subtly stated the dangers and disadvantages.
Nnamdi became defensive and difficult to deal with, but Ebere knew in her heart, she couldn't cope with it in marriage . Since finding someone she connected with had been really hard for her, she put up with it and chipped it in once in a while.
At some point, she let it go and decided to cope with it given the popular saying you cannot get 100 percent of the qualities you want in an opposite sex.
After a couple of months , Nnamdi became distant and it broke Ebere's heart. When she complained , he replied saying
''Who said we were dating, we are just friends''. Gbagam!!!! What? Ebere was dazed and in shock. Just friends she asked to be sure she heard right.
Do you get intimate , kiss , smooch , touch etc your female friends ? Really? She asked in tears. Nnamdi paid her no attention and Ebere was left with a broken heart. She tried to salvage the ''friendship'' but Nnamdi was adamant.She felt her life was over and thought about the stress finding someone she liked and would connect with all over again.
A year and a half had passed and Ebere had moved on, expectant she would meet the one while Nnamdi clearly had fun moving on with another female so quick it dazed her.
One fateful day, Ebere received a knock on her door, behold it was Nnamdi's colleague that had been their mutual friend.
Did you hear what happened ?Tina asked. Did you hear that Nnamdi died on his way from Uyo to Eket in a bus accident?
What!!! Ebere screamed . Nnamdi, in his 30,s, tall , handsome, someone she felt she could not get over, highly charismatic GONE.
She fell on the floor weak and pondering. What if she had gone to a babalawo (native doctor) to tie him down with jazz (black magic) to ensure he marries her , had tried hooking him down with a pregnancy, she would have been an early widow.
ALL THINGS WORK FOR GOOD TO THOSE THAT LOVE GOD . IF HE /SHE BREAKS YOUR HEART AND DECIDES TO MOVE ON, LET THEM GO!!! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. HE HAS A PLAN!!!
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