HE CALLED ME A FOOL, GOAT, SHALLOW, ETC- SHOULD I ACCEPT HIM BACK?

THE GRAVITY OF WORDS

DEFINITION OF WORDS

Words are a unit a unit of language, consisting of one or more spoken sounds or their written representation that functions as a principal carrier of meaning.

A female hookee reached out to me stating she had a recent falling out with a male hookee. While she admits she hung up a call on him to cool off while he sounded annoying, she never called him names and the guy admits same  too. She only confronted the male hookee seeking clarifications on some details he gave her which didn’t tally with her findings, but he totally misunderstood her.

In the course of the brouhaha, he got ballistic and cursed her out, calling her names like Ewu (Goat),  primitive, shallow, a big fool, called her mad, gold digger because she sort extra information about him , negative   etc. He also went ahead to tell her he was done with her, despite her trying to explain things to him.

Below  are excerpts from the bloody written exchange from the male and she could decipher he had a temper.

A week later, he called back to apologize stating he still liked her, realized his mistake and was willing to make things work. He promised not to use the aggressive, verbal abusive approach again. She forgave him, but is afraid he has abusive tendencies .

QUESTION- SHOULD SHE ACCEPT HIM BACK?

NOTE FROM THE HOOKEEOLOGIST- WORDS ARE IMPORTANT. THE IMPACT OF OUR WORDS ON OTHERS CAN DO MORE HARM THAN GOOD. EVEN GOD OUR CREATOR ACKNOWLEDGES THE IMPORTANCE OF WORDS. HE SPOKE CREATION INTO EXISTENCE .CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY!